The Story of Queen Victoria and Prince Albert

From the lecture series: Victorian Britain

By Patrick N. Allitt, Emory University

In 1840, the newly crowned 18-year old Queen Victoria wedded her 20-year old first cousin—a German prince named Albert—in what proved to be one of the most genuine and devoted marriages in the monarchy’s history.

The Marriage of Queen Victoria, 10 February 1840
In 1840, the newly crowned 18-year old Queen Victoria wedded her 20-year old first cousin, a German prince named Albert. (Image: George Hayter/Public domain)

Victoria came to the British throne in 1837 at the age of 18. Her predecessors, George III, George IV, and William IV had been unimpressive kings, and they had impaired the reputation of the monarchy. By her authority and her example, Victoria restored its reputation and dignity, embodying the era’s mood and moral improvement. Along with her husband, Prince Albert of Saxe-Coburg-Gotha, whom she married in 1840, Victoria made the most of what limited political power and influence the monarchy still retained within the British constitutional monarchy system. She communicated regularly throughout her entire reign with her Prime Ministers. She also bore nine children and enjoyed many of the advantages of the industrial society in which she was living.

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Queen First, Wife Second

In getting married and in the early years of the marriage, she was very keen to show Albert that, although he might be the paterfamilias, she was the queen; that was what counted most. Albert himself was a very earnest young man, but by all accounts rather humorless. He had been educated at the University of Bonn and was an intelligent and gifted person. His uncle, the King of Belgium, King Leopold, had foreseen the possibility of a marriage between the two of them because they were exact contemporaries. Leopold had, in effect, trained Albert for the job of becoming Victoria’s husband. It was a gamble because no one could ever be certain that the marriage was ever going to come off.

At first, Victoria didn’t like the sound of it. She wasn’t keen at all. When he came to Britain in 1839, she began to thaw because he was handsome and had excellent manners.

At first, Victoria didn’t like the sound of it. She wasn’t keen at all. When he came to Britain in 1839, she began to thaw because he was handsome and had excellent manners; he was serious, charming, and had many of the qualities she might have looked for in a husband. It wasn’t long before she proposed to him. Normally, it would be the other way around, but she was the queen.

The British people traditionally don’t like foreigners. There is a long history of xenophobia in Britain, and the fact that Albert was German made him a subject of suspicion. The queen understood that, as did her ministers. It was necessary almost as a matter of policy not to give authority to this man who had just arrived from Germany, and it wasn’t until 1857 that he was given the title of Prince Consort.

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Prince Albert the Useful

Photographic portrait of Prince Albert, standing
Prince Albert  (1819-1861) (Image: Everett Historical/Shutterstock)

The queen at first let him have no political authority at all. Gradually, his abilities began to show themselves and he started to be admitted into the interior circles of British political life. His first effort to get a good reputation was to restore the conduct of the royal household, which was run chaotically. Over the centuries, an accretion of special offices, duties, privileges, and rights had come in so that the palace was full of people, many of whom had very little to do and for which they received large salaries. For example, there were three different sets of servants, one to clear out the ashes from the grates, a second set to lay a new fire, and a third lot to light the fire. Not only was it cumbersome, but it was also very difficult to get the fire quickly changed when you needed it.

Buckingham palace c. 1837
Albert’s reorganization of Buckingham Palace’s administration put him in the good graces of a wary government. (Image: engraving of J Woods after a picture by Hablot Browne and R Garland/Public domain)

Prince Albert took the whole thing in hand, reorganized the administration of the royal household from top to bottom, got rid of dozens of unnecessary servants and sinecure holders, with the result that the household was run better and at far less cost. You can imagine that the government is enthusiastic about anyone who can save it some money. It wasn’t long before the ministers began to realize that Prince Albert was a real asset.

When Victoria gave birth for the first time, less than a year after their marriage, he was admitted to the Privy Council, the group of ministers immediately around the monarch, and was named regent in the event of her death. This was a time when death in childbirth was common; women often died in their twenties and thirties giving birth, so the possibility of a regency re-emerged, and Albert was named. That is a measure of his admission into the favored circles.

Albert wrote to his father in 1841, after a year and a half: “I study the politics of the day with great industry. I speak quite openly on all subjects. And I endeavor quietly to be as much use to Victoria in her position as I can be.” In a letter from Victoria to her uncle Leopold, she writes, “Albert is indeed a great comfort to me. He takes the greatest possible interest in what goes on, feeling with me and for me, and yet abstaining to keep from biasing me either way. We talk much on every subject and his judgment is, as you say, good and calm.” British politicians of both parties came to respect him for his hard work, active conscience, good judgment, and his very high moral tone.

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A Very Intense and Warm Marriage

The Queen and the Prince Consort
The Queen and the Prince Consort 1854 (Image: Roger Fenton – royalcollection.org.uk/Public domain)

Sometimes Victoria would fly into uncontrollable rages against Prince Albert, and we have detailed written records of all their arguments. They had intense rows, fighting verbally for a while, and then eventually he would withdraw and they would send letters to each other, many of which also still survive through which we can trace a documented course of their arguments.

His letters to her are rather condescending. He points out to her why it was that she lost her temper and where her faulty reasoning was, and eventually, after a week or three she would feel better, and they would reunite again and go off. In a way, it was a very intense and warm marriage on the whole. It certainly wasn’t entirely trouble-free.

photo of older Queen Victoria wearing black mourning clothes.
After Albert’s untimely death at the age of 42, Victoria wore black mourning clothes for the rest of her life. (Image: Everett Historical/Shutterstock)

Prince Albert’s death in 1861 came as an absolute catastrophe, a shattering blow from which the queen never fully recovered. In the short term, it sent her into a profound depression and withdrawal from society. Every day from then until the end of her own life, which lasted for another 40 years, Victoria had Prince Albert’s shaving gear brought in the morning and had his bathrobe ready. They had shared a double desk where they had done their work, where new paper and pens were laid out on his side of the desk.

She often used to go to bed with a plaster cast of one of his hands which she would hold when she went to sleep. In the early 1860s, she refused to attend public functions at all. Over years, she became more and more reclusive, with the result that her Prime Minister at that time, Lord Palmerston, was afraid that republicanism might start to gain ground in British politics as the queen had seemingly abdicated her responsibilities. The whole of the rest of her life, the queen wore black mourning clothes.

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Common Questions About Queen Victoria and Prince Albert

Q: How old were Queen Victoria and Prince Albert when they got married?

Queen Victoria and Prince Albert were, respectively, 18 and 20 years old when they got married. Despite the arranged aspect of their marriage, they had an intimate and loving marriage. The queen became deeply heartbroken when he died at age 42, mourning his death for years.

Q: What did Prince Albert really die of?

The official cause of Prince Albert’s death was typhoid fever, but reports show that throughout most of his life, he suffered from poor health. The stress associated with the demands of his duties as prince and his emotionally unstable wife may have added to his health troubles.

Q: Who succeeded Queen Victoria after her death?

Edward VII, Queen Victoria’s oldest son, took over the throne after her death in 1901.

Q: What killed Queen Victoria?

Queen Victoria died at age 81 from ill health, suffering from rheumatism and cataracts. She was mourning her son Alfred who had died just months before.

This article was updated on July 16, 2020

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